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ComradeSharkfucker@lemmy.ml to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 days ago

a christmas mirarule

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a christmas mirarule

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ComradeSharkfucker@lemmy.ml to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 days ago
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  • mech@feddit.org
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    As a straight guy…OK?

    • ComradeSharkfucker@lemmy.mlOP
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      forcefems you

      • GalacticSushi@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Me next please 🥺

        • GalacticSushi@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          Still cis tho

          • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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            • ComradeSharkfucker@lemmy.mlOP
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              This is going in the folder

      • mech@feddit.org
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        I don’t know what that means, but it sounds like something I’d be OK with.

        • GalacticSushi@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          !egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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            I’m a 40-year-old guy with a full beard and a wife, and I relate to all memes on that page.

            Now what?..
            …What the fuck?

            • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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            • GalacticSushi@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              I’m a 33-year-old guy*** with facial hair, a wife, and kids. I started seeing a gender affirming therapist a couple months back. Hoping to start talking to my wife about HRT soon. So far she’s been very supportive but this next step is… Big.

              For reference, my egg started cracking this past summer and fully cracked in October. You’re welcome or I’m sorry if I’ve caused something to crack for you.

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              I had a beard down to my navel this time last year, and I’m 39.

              You can change whatever you want about yourself, if you want.

              Feel free to DM if you’ve got questions!

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              30-year old dude here!

              I’m a big fan of egg_irl because the subreddit (ew) gave me the courage to undertake an open-minded exploration of my gender identity.

              Ultimately I concluded that I’m cis, but now I’m confident enough in that identity to enjoy some traditionally ‘feminine’ things that I found I like without worrying about it somehow harming my masculinity =)

            • cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              I don’t see the problem with the wife or the 40 years old thing. At least not related to this; might not be great if you wanna run a marathon.

            • atopi@piefed.blahaj.zone
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              https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/

    • bdonvr@thelemmy.club
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      Yeah like I’m pretty comfortable with my gender but I mean I can’t say no to a unique experience

    • germanatlas@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      As a bisexual guy…OK?

      • WhyIHateTheInternet@lemmy.world
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        As a guy…OK!

      • cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        You date a bi girl and she moves in with you on the first date.

        • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          I see this as an absolute win!

  • Evil_Shrubbery@thelemmy.club
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    (blahaj.zone/post/36125660,
    blahaj.zone/post/36068318)

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    Fucking better not. All my experiences with other women have been terrible. I probably am gay, but more because I might turn out to be a dude.

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      I’m so confused about every sexuality mentioned in this comment

      I have no idea who is what lol

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        My guess is that they were born female, find men to be sexually attractive, but are likely to identify as trans-masc.

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        i followed perfectly but i’m at least enbie with a similarly confusing explanation

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    oh deer

    • Ceruleum@lemmy.wtf
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      It went maximum lesbian.

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    Like to me or to the deer? Or is the deer speaking to the person pointing at them?

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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      yes

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    And that’s how Noelle was born.

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    thank you for this christmas blessing 🏳️‍🌈

  • Rozaŭtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    My daily affirmation.

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    Is this a joke I’m too straight to understand?

    (For the record, I wish I wasn’t, yeah I have tried, both exploring my identity and also sexual acts.)

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    @squirtsquirt29@sh.itjust.works you’ll like this

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      Thank you I needed to see this

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          So joy and whimsy coded

  • Cevilia (she/they/…)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Well, I’m about to go to work on Xmas Day, so… bring it on?

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    Hopefully on the ground floor, as I dive out the window to avoid being happy.

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