French, speaking English and Spanish.
Create content and participate to make Lemmy more attractive.
Reddit taught me this. It’s great to cope with frustration while not engaging in a sterile argument.
I got you. Of course it’s easier said than done. But you got to be nuanced and able to read the room. Maybe think ahead to avoid being in trouble (work, edgy neighborhoods).
But in the end, you must not care. Even insults. Insults have the value only you give to them.
Take care ♥️
I do whatever the fuck I want, unless it is unpolite or could hurt somebody’s freedom.
I learnt that, as I don’t give a shit about what people are doing, they must also don’t give a shit either. People just care about themselves most of the time. The day I realized that, I had a strong freedom feeling.
Having kids multiplied this attitude by 1000 and actually, I see people smiling and interacting with us while we’re fooling around.
GO PLAY WITH FUCKING PUDDLES WEARING PINK PANTIES ON YOUR HEAD MY DUDE ! I might join you.
The answer is very often selfhosting.
I was totally oblivious to this concept 2 years ago. I now have multiple servers running a bunch of FOSS software and I’m totally google free.
My solution to upload videos I want to share is picoshare. Dead simple and efficient.
I learnt everything online and if I could make it, so do you :)
Open-source and unmoderated are 2 very different things.
Lemmy is open source so you got this already.
As for an instance without an admin, there can’t be such a thing. An instance has to be hosted on some server and this server belongs to somebody that has to maintain it.
A community without a mod doesn’t exist, as a community has to be founded by someone to exist.
Now, do you really want a community without an active mod ? Well if you want spam, bots and shitty content, sure.
If your problem is power tripping mods, just leave the communities with such mods.
Or you can run your own Lemmy instance and see how it goes.
When I vaporize, the smell doesn’t last very long. Not sure what kind of weed or vaporizer you use though.
I’ve never tried it, but I heard good things about Smoke Buddy
Please, call for help. Here is a list of hotline support from all around the world.
You being on earth right now is some kind of wonderful magic event. Think of the odds of you being on this giant rock lost in vacuum thinking about your own condition and building a family.
Don’t loose that magical spark, you’re worth it :)