I don’t understand, do they have some kind of VPS with Jellyfin etc. via SSO / LDAP for their polyamorous group? And they even have a ticket system? How many people are they seeing? My chronically single ass is so confused rn.
And they even have a ticket system? How many people are they seeing?
I legit sent this to my poly group because I’ve got more than a few technicals friend in there that would giggle about that.
I almost tagged my old manager too, specifically because my throuple jokes about the number of people in their partner space. I can’t talk too much because she and I share more than a few partners 😅
Trying to play helldivers with 3 out of the 4 people in one has been such a nightmare of being invited in and asked to leave so #4 can join, I can only imagine it being worse being in it
Then again I’m probably not a good judge considering I don’t think I could handle a mono relationship
Right‽ I really want an open source, private, simple, self hosted way to cleanly aggregate everyone’s calendars when they’re all using different google/microsoft/apple/work ones.
google calendar and outlook can both kinda do it and Android does it pretty well in calendar apps but otherwise there’s a lot of manually messing around with icals and CalDav.
I’d love a simple, polycule-friendly docker container with a web interface where you can log in and it lets you add all your calendars (or create private ones) and share them with other partners. Throw in a cross-platform mobile app for good measure.
There’s stuff like nextcloud but the integration with other calendars seems a bit iffy and it’s got a lot of extra corporatey cloud stuff. It would be nice to have one that’s simple and quick enough for non-techy people to use.
Yeah, as a single person I just download torrents from a torrents tracker, watch them locally, and delete afterwards if there are enough seeders besides me. Feels kinda zen compared to all the mess other people are doing.
I don’t understand, do they have some kind of VPS with Jellyfin etc. via SSO / LDAP for their polyamorous group? And they even have a ticket system? How many people are they seeing? My chronically single ass is so confused rn.
I legit sent this to my poly group because I’ve got more than a few technicals friend in there that would giggle about that.
I almost tagged my old manager too, specifically because my throuple jokes about the number of people in their partner space. I can’t talk too much because she and I share more than a few partners 😅
mono folx really underestimate the logistics that go into making poly relationships work.
Trying to play helldivers with 3 out of the 4 people in one has been such a nightmare of being invited in and asked to leave so #4 can join, I can only imagine it being worse being in it
Then again I’m probably not a good judge considering I don’t think I could handle a mono relationship
Honestly, calendaring is probably the hardest part. Managing the authentication and OU structure of a complicated polycule is simple in comparison
Right‽ I really want an open source, private, simple, self hosted way to cleanly aggregate everyone’s calendars when they’re all using different google/microsoft/apple/work ones.
google calendar and outlook can both kinda do it and Android does it pretty well in calendar apps but otherwise there’s a lot of manually messing around with icals and CalDav.
I’d love a simple, polycule-friendly docker container with a web interface where you can log in and it lets you add all your calendars (or create private ones) and share them with other partners. Throw in a cross-platform mobile app for good measure.
There’s stuff like nextcloud but the integration with other calendars seems a bit iffy and it’s got a lot of extra corporatey cloud stuff. It would be nice to have one that’s simple and quick enough for non-techy people to use.
Cal.com. It’s also open source.
I keep telling myself I need an excuse to figure out how to make docker containers…
It’s satire
Yeah, as a single person I just download torrents from a torrents tracker, watch them locally, and delete afterwards if there are enough seeders besides me. Feels kinda zen compared to all the mess other people are doing.