• pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 hours ago

      Trying to play helldivers with 3 out of the 4 people in one has been such a nightmare of being invited in and asked to leave so #4 can join, I can only imagine it being worse being in it

      Then again I’m probably not a good judge considering I don’t think I could handle a mono relationship

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      2 days ago

      Honestly, calendaring is probably the hardest part. Managing the authentication and OU structure of a complicated polycule is simple in comparison

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        1 day ago

        Right‽ I really want an open source, private, simple, self hosted way to cleanly aggregate everyone’s calendars when they’re all using different google/microsoft/apple/work ones.

        google calendar and outlook can both kinda do it and Android does it pretty well in calendar apps but otherwise there’s a lot of manually messing around with icals and CalDav.

        I’d love a simple, polycule-friendly docker container with a web interface where you can log in and it lets you add all your calendars (or create private ones) and share them with other partners. Throw in a cross-platform mobile app for good measure.

        There’s stuff like nextcloud but the integration with other calendars seems a bit iffy and it’s got a lot of extra corporatey cloud stuff. It would be nice to have one that’s simple and quick enough for non-techy people to use.