SpudNoodle@kbin.socialtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's some easy recipes that only use non-perishables?
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11 months agoBoil ‘em, mashbake ‘em, stick ‘em in a stew…
Stupid face, weird voice, absurdly long neck. Don’t live in Glendale or West Covina. Guess that makes me Durpleton.
RIP Apollo.
Boil ‘em, mashbake ‘em, stick ‘em in a stew…
I can use google translate, I figured out your comment. Just making a joke was all.
I don’t speak or read Chinese, so here’s the closest thing I’ve got: 何?!?
I think I need the boundary you stated in the post. I really struggle when it feels like I’m not in control of my time/energy. When someone else takes away my self agency. I hate that feeing and makes me resentful towards whatever external factor is causing it.
I know the reason why this is a sensitive issue for me, and no longer am in those circumstances. But it comes up in other contexts, and I don’t know how a boundary would work there. Eg, work requiring me to “sacrifice” personal time. I get paid for the hours I work, but it deeply bothers me to have to give up my morning routine so I that I start work early to meet someone else’s deadline. It’s not unreasonable to have to occasionally work a little more, so setting a hard boundary isn’t appropriate, but where is the line for my personal comfort? Same with personal relationships, it’s not unreasonable to give in sometimes, but where to draw the line?