Previous name will be well known…

Agreed with my leadership that I’d put a quick heads up on Slack today in my team channel that my name has changed to avoid surprising anyone Monday, and to give the weekend for anyone to digest.

Response was positive so here’s hoping no issues as work goes next week.

The field I work in has a variety of background checks for clients… so for a while until I decide to get new identification documents my deadname will float about… plus my family don’t know about the changing name yet.

Thank you ❤️

Hope it goes well for you!

Have an introductory session with a therapist on Thursday now…

Important context here, my partner is a trans woman herself so understands much of my current headspace. She’s also my dominant in a dynamic, the caging was more linked to that at first. We share a lot of our clothing these days, we’re the same size in that… she’s just taller than me. I’ve been dressing femme for a few months now after initially coming out as fluid… that’s normal to us…

Fucker Carlson streams his show on twitter, since he was fired from having his bullshit platformed on Fox.

I keep my nails short, preference of my partner.

I love having them painted though, and there’s a distinct difference in how I feel when they need redoing, and having them pretty.

Which is also fair as the lines can get very blurred dependant on the definitions in play…

Trans/NB/Fluid/queer are all very closely related after all and people can identify with all of these.

Since I started to lean more femme in my usual attire this really has become a problem…

Trying to explain nonbinary to people is so frustrating.

Only slightly more frustrating is not knowing oneself from one moment to the next.

If I’m feeling on the femme side of things when I arrive, do I need to be tied up?

Blahaj gives the best snuggles for bed time 😀