lack of curiosity
That’s a big one. Also lack of hobbies or passions.
Not being kind to people in the service industry.
Someone who identifies very closely with hustle & grind culture. Someone who claims a personal brand. Someone who kisses up and kicks down.
Inability to follow instructions. Lack of problem solving skills. No common sense.
- Belief in nonsense, such as astrology
- Celebrity worship
- Excessive social media usage, especially Twitter
Being “vetted” by them…
Maybe you don’t like the wording, but everyone does this. Unless you know if someone will be a close friend the moment you lay eyes on them, or are friends with literally everyone you’ve spent time with.
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Then it’s unconscious. Hopefully the criteria are ones you’d agree with if they were conscious.
For real this seems like a major red flag.
That they vetted me
Listens to pop music
- Serious belief in pseudosciences
- Conspiracy theorist
- Right-wing ideology
- Sex prude
