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    6 hours ago

    My group mostly only uses discord for video chat during D&D. Is there a recommended alternative? We don’t use ANY of the other features. I’m looking into jitsi now.

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    7 hours ago

    What do i say to my friends to get them to leave? Ive already tried and they won’t.

    Sadly this change won’t really affect them so they are not going to care. I’ve wanted to leave for a long time now.

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      What do i say to my friends to get them to leave? Ive already tried and they won’t.

      I just abruptly switched to Matrix and encouraged anyone who wanted to get a hold of me to do the same, held my ground and did not look back, now a good handful of my friends have a Matrix account.

      • FauxLiving@lemmy.world
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        Same.

        If someone isn’t willing to take a minimum amount of effort to stay in contact with me, then I’m not losing much if I don’t ever talk to them again. They don’t have to quit Discord, they just have to find me elsewhere.

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    9 hours ago

    Fuck Discord is the common message now, but how about we amplify good alternatives? It’ll be easier to tell Discord to fuck off if we’re already set to move elsewhere.

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        Keep in mind everyone that Stoat still doesn’t currently protect it’s users information and is centralized. It doesn’t use encryption but it is very seamless.

        You can host your own Stoat instance but it doesn’t communicate with the main one.

        The devs have said they plan to add more security features in the future yet still don’t make it a priority. The host of Stoat should be able to see everyone’s messages, including in DM’s, due to the lack of E2E encryption.

        Once they add more security features I imagine they will be much more popular in general.

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          In my view, security isn’t a feature, it’s a design choice.

          I have no ill wishes towards Stoat, but I’ve never seen a developer convincingly implement security after the fact.

      • WormFood@lemmy.world
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        I looked in stoat’s issue tracker and there is an issue asking for video chat which is 5 years old and still open. Safe to say it’s a dead project.

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        7 hours ago

        The main thing I will miss from discord is the ease of streaming with a small group of friends. That was main reason we chose it over alternatives back in the day.

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            Discord has made communicating with a small group of friends who moved to different cities stay in touch daily while playing games, chatting in voice, and streaming stuff to share. Voice and text are great, but the streaming is how we share the in game moments we used to be able to see in person.

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      I will never understand the move from forums to discord. when discord is the only way to get assistance, I go find another product.

      • John@lemmy.ml
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        It was one of the first to make voice chat really really easy for gamers. Yes vent and ts existed before, but discord made it soooo easy and had integrated irc-style chat

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        Discord is terrible for assistance.

        Search is ineffective, you have to actually fight the UI to go back to older messages, depending on the device there are still somehow cases in which you can’t go back to the beginning of a thread. But thank you for putting a huge reminder that I am currently “reading through old messages”, silly me, why would I want to do that.

        Oh, you’re trying to scroll down through old posts? Let me suddenly refresh the list for no reason and bring you back to the most recent ones. Everything past the third screen might as well not exist anymore.

        And of course, there is the slight problem of every useful info written there being completely invisible to the rest of the internet.

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          What amazes me is how often there are a bunch of sweaty nerds in the chat willing to answer every lazy-ass question known to man.

          If they expended a fraction of that effort on making a manual and a FAQ, they wouldn’t even need a discord channel.

      • Victor@lemmy.world
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        It’s easier to set up than a forum. I suppose. But messier.

        A forum is much better suited for the purpose a lot of people are using Discord for.

        They should be using Discord for voice chat and streaming, that’s what it’s good at. Use a fairly tool for what it does well. Not for what it does poorly.

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        8 hours ago

        Everything I’ve said is everybody is categorize as a teen unless the provide face/ID verification. So anonymous should still be allowed in general, just not to servers/channels set as age restricted.